The stable job, the steady climb, the family’s pride— you have it all, so why do you feel so empty?
Career transformation for Desi women craving alignment.
For Desi women ready to ditch the guilt and make bold, aligned career moves.
Break out of the box. Build a career that feels authentically yours.
Stop settling for stability. Design success on your terms.
Build confidence to switch careers, demand more, and be seen.
Make bold moves without burning out or compromising your values.
Go from following the plan… to writing your own.
You want alignment, purpose, and confidence to go after it. Whether pivoting or leveling up, you're ready to trust yourself again.
Let's get you there — with clarity, confidence, and support.
Hi, I'm Neha — founder of Her Becoming and a first-generation Indian American who's lived the tug-of-war between tradition and self-trust.
I grew up navigating "good daughter" pressure while craving a life that felt true to me. I know the weight of guilt, doubt, and always putting others first.
Her Becoming was born from my own journey — helping South Asian women break free from silence, scarcity, and self-sacrifice to step into clarity, confidence, and choice.
I coach from both training and lived experience, walking beside you as you become who you were always meant to be.
With the right support, you'll stop second-guessing and start living fully. Does this resonate for you? Let’s chat!
Choosing careers to earn approval, not fulfillment
Fearing parental/societal disappointment or judgment (even in your 30s, 40s, 50s!)
Lacking confidence and agency
Feeling stuck without knowing what you want
Plus scarcity thinking like:
“It’s selfish to want more when my parents sacrificed so much.”
“There’s only one path to stability, and I can't risk stepping off it.”
“Fulfillment is for others— I need to be practical.”
“I can’t trust myself with big decisions.”
You’ve probably had enough of:
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or stuck it’s because you’re carrying generations of expectations while building a life of your own.
That’s exhausting.
But here’s the good news: You’re not alone. And more importantly—you’re not broken. You’re waking up. You’re growing. Check out our free guide below to shift toward new mindsets that create career clarity and confidence on your terms.
Check out our FREE guide:
5 Mindset Shifts That Unlock Career Confidence for Desi Women
From second-guessing every move to trusting yourself completely
I’m not the coach for playing small, people-pleasing, or pretending you’re fine while quietly burning out.
I work with Desi women done shrinking themselves to fit roles they never chose — daughters who were raised to self-sacrifice, professionals who were taught that money is for security, not joy, and women who feel guilty for simply wanting more.
Here’s what I know:
✨ You don’t have to betray your culture to be true to yourself.
✨ Financial freedom isn’t selfish — it’s generational healing.
✨ Guilt isn’t a life plan.
✨ You’re not too much. You’ve outgrown “bare minimum” thinking.
I’m not here to help you cope with the cage — I’m here to help you outgrow it.
This is your permission slip to want what you want — without apology.
Where we draw the line…
