So good to meet you!
I’m a first-generation Indian American woman who followed the path that was laid out for me — the one so many of us are taught will lead to success.
I did everything “right.”
I built a respected BigLaw career.
I checked all the boxes — the degrees, the job, the stability. From the outside, it looked like I had it all.
But inside, I felt disconnected. Unfulfilled. I kept wondering: How can I have come this far… and still feel so stuck?
It wasn’t that I didn’t care about my work — it just didn’t feel like mine anymore.
Something inside me whispered: There has to be more than this.
I wasn’t being ungrateful. I wasn’t lost.
I was waking up — to the quiet truth that the career I built to make others proud didn’t reflect who I was becoming.
Like so many South Asian women, I had spent years being the good daughter, the high-achiever, the peacemaker — while silencing my own voice.
And when I finally asked myself, What do I really want?
Everything changed.
I didn’t burn it all down. I just stopped abandoning myself.
That’s when the real work began — unlearning expectations, reclaiming my clarity, and giving myself permission to pivot into something that actually felt aligned.
That journey is what inspired me to create Her Becoming — a space for South Asian women who are craving more:
✨ More clarity around what’s next
✨ More courage to pivot careers (even if it scares you)
✨ More confidence to choose a path that finally feels like yours
If you’ve outgrown the version of success you were handed, you’re not alone.
You’re not broken — you’re evolving.
And you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Let’s explore what’s possible when you stop second-guessing and start trusting yourself.
You’re not too late. You’re right on time.